Why should we put up

Why should we put up
Because we’re women
The drunken husband
Who blows up our money
With smoking
With gambling
With drinking
With other women

They beat us up
Our children too
They work sometimes 
But give no money 
To share the burden
Of running the house

The schooling
The uniform 
The books
The lunchtime meal
The government 
It looks after

The rice comes
From the government

It’s inedible
We sell it 
To whoever will buy
They’re even poorer
Than us 

And use that money
And our earnings 
To get
The rice
The wheat
The sugar
The sait
The oil 
The onion
The potatoes

Bananas sometimes
And if the price is right
Once in a while

Some vegetables 

The madams 
We work for
Give us 

Old Sarees
Used clothes
Toys
And shoes
For our children 
They feel good 
Doing so
We get by

Old umbrellas 
Sweaters
Bedding
They feel good
Giving so
We get by

But that’s not all
Bills to be paid
The electricity
The gas
The cable

The mechanic 
To repair the 
Old TV
The madam
Had kindly given
Very cheap

Then comes 
The wedding 
Of a near one
We have to gift
It’s part of the custom

We borrow
Some from our
Kind madams

The balance
Our jewellery 
We pawn

Sometimes 
To never
Get it back

A funeral
We have to pay
The Poojari 
Who prays
For the soul
Of the departed

We need
To
To buy
Stuff
To make 
The food
For the people
Who come
To fulfil
Their obligations 

We are now
In deep 
In debt 
Our jewellery 
Now gone

The husbands
Now beat us
Because 
There isn’t
Enough money 
For
Enough food

When sick
We wait hours
At the government hospital

The treatment 
It’s free
But there’s 
Expense
On travel
And medicines
To be bought

They don’t like it
The madams
When we take leave
It’s twice a month

When someone’s  sick
Can’t your husband 
Take leave
They ask

If you don’t come?
Who will
Look after us?

You’ve taken advance

We’ve given you
Clothes
Shoes
Bedding 
Umbrellas 
Sweaters
The TV
A raise
You need to be grateful

If you take leave 
Who will look after us?
Who will cook
Who will clean
Who will feed 
Our children
Give them a bath?

Who will wash
Our dishes
Sweep
Mop the floor
Wash our clothes
Hang them
Out to dry
Fold them
And leave them 
On the bed
To be securely
Kept 
In our cupboards 
Ourselves 

Take away
Our leftovers 
We don’t want to waste
God doesn’t like it

It goes on 
We have to work
We owe them
We’re honest people

Atleast until
The debts are paid
And then
The bonus!

The bonus is
One months pay
They bring
A new saree
And day
Happy Diwali!
It’s ok
We’ve atleast got
A new saree

When we want 
A day’s break
To go
For our kid’s Annual Day
We say somebody’s died
They would understand 
If we told them
We want to watch 
Our kid’s Annual Day
They would say
Let your husband go
Are they not
His kids?

His kids?
He beats them up
Whenever he’s angry

His gambling
Hasn’t gone well
The other woman
Gone off
With another man
Or the drink
Has gone 
Into his head
He’s lost his sense
Of decency
Which probably 
Doesn’t exist

Our son 
We will not pamper
We will teach him

His wife
Will be his partner
Not under his thumb
As our mother in law
Had taught her son

Our son
Will not raise his hand
Not drink
Or gamble
Or go after 
Other women
Not live on
His wives wages

We will give 
Him education
The fear of God
The respect of women

Our daughter 
She goes to school too
She’ll get a job of her own

Will not marry
As a child
She will study
She will earn
She will choose
Her husband 

Our world is bleak
But we live
To see our children
Back from school
To hug them
They’re ours to love
We love them back

How they turn out
Our sons
When they grow
We do not know

Will they turn out
Like the father
No
They won’t
We won’t 
Let  that happen
To another woman

Our God
Is with us




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